This year, my boys are in a public school in the morning and a private one in the afternoon. That meant not three but FIVE sets of Valentines for the parties. Like I said, work created...
To top that off, I don't let them buy Valentines. We make them. We have always made them and we always will. The theme this year was supposed to be glitter...love those sparkles!
We made three sets of red and gold glittering Valentines and quite a mess in the process:
They came out cute, and are absolutely worth the glitter I am still sweeping up off the floor.
However, I had one child that didn't want glitter cards. We had this problem last year when he wanted a non-Valentine shoebox for school. So, he came up with his own plan-and since it was for the Montessori Center, I followed the child.
What would you rather have? A bug or a hug? That's a good question. I was the one that insisted on the heart sticker, just to remind him of why he was passing out insects.
When the goal is not to create work, we try to get rid of all this Valentine stuff immediately. I can only imagine how creative some moms get about tossing things out when their kids aren't looking.
I couldn't just let them tear it all up for the pencils and trinkets and then wait until next Sunday night to take to the curb before my buddy Quincy comes to get the garbage while the boys watch in fascination. Yes, I talk to my garbage man-I talk to everybody. Service is better that way....
We had a "Valentine Scavenger Hunt." They each had to go to a corner of the family room and dump their Valentines out on the floor so they could see them:
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| Frances was ready! |
Once they were ready, I called out something for them to look for in the cards and bring it to me. We kept score of who had the item. All three of them REALLY got into it!
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| Just a heart! |
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| Cats! |
When we were done, I set the stopwatch to see how quickly they could put everything back in their Valentine boxes....2 minutes, 35 seconds! THEN, I counted their tally marks and gave them candy for them. Yes, it was real Valentine candy. Sometimes you need a little, but they earned it!
Right now the artwork wall is all love and hearts:
I'm going to miss all the pink and purple when the green and gold arrives in March!











